I definitely agree with no to the song - definite pursuit and to be avoided. Yes, there are some touch 'n goes from her. I think the best approach is to respond with around 65% of her enthusiasm. You (like so many of us) still have a way to go before you will be okay either way. I truly only think you can successfully reconcile from that place.

As much as you can, please keep shifting your focus from her and onto you. Can you tell us a bit more about the growth work and GAL you are moving forward with?

smile x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus