I've been debating with myself trying to track down OWs family. Her parents are super religious and I'm sure wouldn't be happy to hear she's having an affair... But at this point I'm not even sure what good it would do.
It's a controversial subject, that's for sure. I had to play Sherlock Holmes to track down OM's family (he's on another continent!). But I was determined and spent a lot of time on Google and found them (in a foreign language!) When I called OM's mother, she was shocked because she knows my WW from 20 years ago. Her son, OM told her that my WW has been divorced for "years." I told her no, she's very much married to me right now, she's in the shower in fact. So OM's mother apologized to me and told me she would talk to her son. Did it stop him? No, she's probably in her 70's and he's 50. But it did feel good at least at that time. The weasel has been twice divorced with two kids.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
