I agree - do not move, my H wanted the D, so he moved out and he filed.
What did you do when your W said that to your children? That is absolutely horrible that a parent would think that is okay. You may actually have to get a L to stop that - that is horribly damaging to a child, especially at that age. I am so sorry.
And, it sounds like you should stop being her chauffeur…..IMO
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16