I do feel that I will be ok with or without my W I guess it comes down to how I would feel seeing her happy with another person and having that person bringing up my children and not having any control over this ....my youngest is just two so if my W met new man in 1 year of 5 years time she will still only be 7 and potentially end up calling him daddy ...I guess you do not need to be a birth parent to be classed as a daddy to a child ....

I should be happy that she is happy I just think if I had done things differently then perhaps we might still be together and I would not be here so I take a Lot if not all the blame for the breakdown of our marrage

It also comes down to the point that I thought that I could fix this I was wrong

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.