Yes I got the DR book and am studying it like there's a test at the end. I think that I have messed up so much, for so long that it will be near impossible to fix my M...as I write this I am realizing that I don't really want to fix my old M. I want a brand new M, with my wife...not the crazy B!T$# that's occupying her body now. But the healed version that is attracted to this awesome, calm, cool, action oriented, secure man named Melo.