[Vanilla]

You are asking your H to make changes as you would like them.

He will do that which he wants to do for him or not.

Detaching means accepting that H will change in his way, fine if he does and ok if he doesn't.

It is knowing get he is as he is and it's his choice.

Detaching means you can stand without H changing if you want.

Detaching means letting go of this outcome and letting it unfold as it will.

There is peace in this.

Great peace.

V