I can only say as I see it.

When a wayward enters into an A and the other party is willing. The type of person a wayward encounters has issues, alcohol, partying, etc. Damaged in one way or another, may be a cheater, liar or other type.

I once analysed 100 OP from the site and all of them (bar two) were scums. Of the two that weren't, one OP didn't want to be an OP and another was lied to by the wayward.

Doesn't stand much of a chance does it? One out of control wayward and a scum bag!

The OP is chosen because of ease of proximity and availability.

Spell break is when the wayward has a glimpse of the truth. A truth dart, being faced with reality (reality bites) or the scuzzy or scum does something exposes their weakness. A lie, an affair, an STD or drink, anger and hurt.


Seems to take between 18 months and 24 months for spell break. Limmerance to die.

That's as I see it, hope it helps.

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW