Read your response on the previous thread. I agree, for whatever reason at first I was sure I could help... I mean you should see my tools, then I learned I couldn't help but I could stick around, work on myself, improve while she processed ... Which has lead me here, now I've discovered she is in trouble and by me just being there, she will never bottom out, might come close but having me there she is all to able to cast her stuff on me and never realize it's her bags ... Not mine, I do pray for her every day and know the only thing I can do for all our sakes is to let her go, she has to figure this out on her own and she may very well never be able to face what she needs to face, it's tragic... But having 2 or 3 lives ruined would be even more tragic. So I've let her go, and doing so over the weeks I've realized she just has not been a good person, no one I would want in my life ... She gradually became this other person so I think I gradually just accepted it. I would not want her how she is now, i feel deep inside that I've done what I was called to do to this point, I pray God helps her along the rest of the way and she does find some peace. I accept I'll always love her, 26 years was no fluke... But something bigger than our love has a tight hold of her and I have to accept it and move on. Does that mean I'm done... Yeah for now I am, it's time for me to experience peace and happiness either alone or maybe open myself to someone down the road that all remains in the future and I'm just getting through this one day at a time
