Don't mind read. You can't guess right. Even if you were correct about what he was thinking, this doesn't mean he's not confused or conflicted, so just because you picked up one emotion doesn't mean it's the only one. And even if he was 100% negative towards M, that doesn't mean those emotions couldn't change.

Bottom line, validate to yourself that losing your partner hurts, but don't try to predict the future or figure it all out. Understandable to want to, but don't allow yourself to try to make conclusions.

Today. It's all about today.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15