I wish I had the answers for you. You sound so frustrated today. I am sorry - I wish your conversation would have gone more positively. Unfortunately, we can't mind read and understand really what he is thinking. It sounds like you still think your H is actually a decent guy. So, he just may be going through a rough time (unlike many of us who have cheaters to deal with :-). He could be feeling guilty if that is the case and that is why he is offering to help and be there. I am sure he still has feelings for you, too.
I would stick to the plan. Keep DB'ing, GAL'ing and trying to attain your goals. It sounds like he is still really confused and in the thick of it. So much so, that he can't see what he is doing to you and probably doesn't even realize what he is saying. Stay the course - I think it is the best option. Hope you have plans tonight to GAL - maybe that class you liked!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
