Interaction with STBX are to a minimum as I honestly can't be dealing with this anymore! I'm hurt but no matter what I do (NC, friendly approach) nothing works so I can truly say that it's over. STBXH is happy when he sees him as he doesn't look as rough as he used to!
It's a long road to acceptance that my M will not be saved! The hardest thing for me is the betrayal. I truly get that people fall out of love but bringing in a 3rd person into a marriage isn't right. If he wasn't that unhappy he should have gone and not stayed with me for two years! So I guess I wasn't that bad!
I know that if I had done this that maybe..., but at the moment it isn't brining me any comfort! In 3 days it will be a year anniversary of me kicking him out! The pain is still there but not as raw as I would expect. No tears just a great sadness within me!
I read on another website that it takes 3 to 5 years to recover from betrayal! At my pace I'll be 75 :-)!
On the other hand job is going very well and got praised for my good work. Nice to hear and I have started singing lesson. Well all I can say is that there was no flooding nor snow :-)!
