Thanks mustard seed for the extra thoughts. I don't think I will unless it's mentioned, I could say I'm subbing or helping out if he asks.
Tim- thank you! L didn't go well in my eyes.
New women L said- Take his offer, he is being VERY generous and honestly giving you WAY more then you should get or be entitled to. Share the house, it's not that big of a deal, just go to a BF's or Mom's those days while you save up for whatever you want to do. I can say he isn't allowed to have anyone spend the night. She said If I didn't take his deal I was dumb pretty much.
She said he really only has to give me 550-750$ and if he gets a good lawyer it can be reduced to 550 either way because if he states he is going to be homeless and we both will not have a stable home for the kids etc etc that the judge will prob lower it for the next 2-3 years and by then I would make enough that when it got reassessed that it would stay at 500$.
I also can have the divorce finalized in 3 weeks from today if I wanted. She said it takes less then a month from start to finish.
