My first post - please be nice.

[CWOL]

CWOL - that is a tough one. What I said was "you'd be surprised what I could do for my family". But that didn't move him. Since I haven't had the opportunity to reconcile or forgive, I'm not sure what advice to give. I'm sorry. My IC did recommend a book about "after the A". Maybe that would help.

Thanks. I don't think there is a "correct" answer. The true answer is probably going to have to be passage of time.
For WW to discover for herself what life is like outside of marriage as well as myself.