MrBond - Does she help pay. I don't want to kick her out. I'm hoping that if she does move out she will regret it - as we know the rules say until she suffers some loss at her own hand...

I'm not focused on her I'm focused on my db/dr/180. That's why I'm in need of some practical ideas. What made me attractive 20 years ago was I was a bad boy and unavailable. Today I'm a caged husband. Yes, I've been seeing my friends, working out like a mad man, building my business, looking forward to spring so I can get on my mtn bike, hit some golf balls, maybe join a softball league.

As I said, any ideas are welcome. I'd like to hear from men who have got their WAW/WW back. Are there any threads with success stories?

M

M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017