Originally Posted By: broke
Even though I know my H was having a PA, when I was pursuing him for reconciliation, he still said I would never forgive him. He repeated over and over again that he knows me better than I know myself and I would never forgive him. He may be right, but I'd like the chance to try.


My WW (and MIL) had the same hangup about reconciliation. They think that I will never forgive her (never mind I did that 17 years ago). What do you think would be the right answer to tell them? She only has an EA with the OM, as best as I can tell (and I snooped quite a bit).


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016