The primary reason my WW gave my MIL for wanting to get a divorce is that she feels that I will never forgive her for restarting the EA a second time. How do I convince them (both) that I am capable of doing that, in a DB way? At least take that away as an excuse... Her real reason may be a fantasy that she could be together with OM, but obviously she won't say it.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016