I am seeing what works. I have mixed results with NC, good results with the occasional text, and bad results when we have R talks and I let her know I want the R back. I also have bad results when I resist her request for R talks. So I'm going to wait for her to contact me again about talking. And I will take it very, very slow.
But tomorrow I'm also going to send her the song I always play for her on St. Patrick's morning. Unless the consensus is DON'T!
No to the song. She left the NYGal that always played that song for her on St. Patrick's morning. She's interested, however, in this new NYGal. If she wasn't she wouldn't keep reaching out to you. Stay the new NYGal. Stick with what has produced positive results. Be the girl she can't stand to be without.
