My first post - please be nice.

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I am so mad right now. She volunteered me to go pick up 2 foster dogs tomorrow. She asked if I would and I never answered yes or no. I asked her where they were going and she said "with me". I replied back with "glad i can be of assistance to you". I really want to be like you do realize you're leaving me right, go get them yourself!

Don't beat yourself up. It took me well over a month to stop doing these things for the WW. But, you've got to stop. She's using you just the way Sandi2 has said so many times. She will continue to cake eat at her pleasure.

But you've got to detach. You've got to let her start to learn if she makes promises for somebody that's not there - she's left holding the bag.