I know what the answer is prolly gonna be, and I'll prolly get 2x4's flying at me for even asking. But, due to some of the things that were said and done the past few weeks by XF I don't know if maybe I could play this out a little differently than normally suggested?

One of the big things she kept going back to in those long conversations is that she misses us, misses having our family and that she does still love me. I have been thinking (didn't do it) if I were to randomly send a picture of us together having fun or the 3 of us together, that would prolly set me back? Just curious if maybe that would be a subtle reminder to keep her mind thinking that way?

More than likely it's not a good idea, I just wanted to run it by everybody here...

Swing away, I'm ready to duck haha


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home