Way Too Late Pt 3

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How did you get locked out of the house? Did you move out on your own, voluntarily? Even in CA they won't force you to leave your own house.

CWOL, I left when I freaked about the BD (hadn't hit yet but I saw it had been filed) and the A - I found both out within hours of each other. I thought I would spend a few days at my Mother's to get my brain straight.

That was that. I had access for about a week before she changed the locks. I left a note about an empty water dish (the 3rd time I saw the dog's water dish was empty) and that pushed her over the edge. The note said: X drinks water.

Apparently, non-access is not even going to be presented to the judge. All we're asking for is 48 hours to get into the house. Since the W has exclusive use and access, she pays for everything. Honestly, if that's my choice, I'll take what I've got. I can't afford to pay for half the mortgage and utilities and not live there. If I were to try to move back, the W would leave (I don't know what happened to the house she rented) and I'd be stuck with a huge mortgage I can't afford.

But I'm done with budging my position at this point. I've been backed into a corner and now I have to fight for the dog. She refuses to even share. So, it's going to be as long as 90 days before we go before a judge about that. She's already 12 with a bad ticker, I hope she's around in 90 days.