Had replied to W's email just explaining the kids schedule around my work. Told her I would be picking the kids up from her on Saturday as normal. Her response was to say she would bring the kids to the house as she wanted to look for her passport. I hadn't responded when I had another email saying when she came by she would talk me through a parents evening she was at last night. I find it interesting that she suggested 3 times in 2 days that she wanted to come by the house. She also wants to move our D3 to the daycare in the village she now lives in, something I have already said I will not be agreeing to at the moment.

For the last 2 weeks, since she left, I have dropped off her grid. I have deactivated my Facebook account for awhile, I have not been in contact with any of our joint friends. Have hung out with new friends I have made recently. I have not contacted her with anything outside of the children and even then kept it light and short. I have been working some more on our/my house (not always sure how I should call it), some things the kids have seen and I'm sure told her about and some more things they haven't yet.

My plan ahead was not to have her at the house this weekend. I will pick up the kids as normal and give her some paperwork of hers she left behind. I plan on emailing the plans tomorrow and will also say that I'm not agreeing to move D3 as I feel it's best for her to stay where she is and that she can write me anything important from the parents evening.

Does this sound like a good proposal?