Rednail- Me, Myself, and I

[mustardseed]

A few thoughts. I'm on my lunch break and I don't have much time so I apologize if this gets cut short.
1) the job. Congratulations!!! That is fantastic and perfect timing.
2) disclosing information to H. I say don't give him any info unless he asks. Yes he will find out, either through the kids or through the disclosure process if you get to that point. However, right now any piece of your life you share with him is feeding him. If he asks about it just say "yes" and leave it at that. If he is like my H then I would say you are better off not telling him you want him to wait until after S3 Bday. All that does is give him information he will try to use to get to you. Prepare for what the news of your job might do.

There is a wave coming. Use it. The under the table job. Keep to yourself