I am seeing what works. I have mixed results with NC, good results with the occasional text, and bad results when we have R talks and I let her know I want the R back. I also have bad results when I resist her request for R talks. So I'm going to wait for her to contact me again about talking. And I will take it very, very slow.
But tomorrow I'm also going to send her the song I always play for her on St. Patrick's morning. Unless the consensus is DON'T!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat