I agree with Tim, GWH, I don't think you can control S29 because he is an adult. If she starts in on you, just say you didn't do anything and validate. Walk away if you have to - don't get defensive or argue. If you handle it calmly, hopefully, she will realize that you had nothing to do with the decisions S29 makes.
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ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16