I agree with Painter. Don't push too much or you will scare her back into her cave. You made it 8 days with NC and then had some contact initiated by her and you jumped right back in it. She knows you are ready to come back at a moment's notice. You want her to miss you, want you back and be willing to put in the work it will take to make your relationship the best it can be. Because it is going to be very hard, so you want her to want the M as much as you do. Give it some time - keep DB'ing. I think you saw some positive signs, but don't make her have second thoughts about you by pursuing. Let her be by herself and let her have second thoughts because she is missing NY. Just my opinion….
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
