Tyler - thank you for sharing your story about pursuing WW and, then, taking the time to make changes this time because you didn't before. That is really powerful and important for all of us DB'ers to remember - we really need to change for ourselves first.

Sparkles - Not sure if you decided what to do about Facebook. My H made fun of me for being on Facebook. Once we separated, he got an account. I found out my BIL was sending him screen shots of everything I posted. So, I blocked all of my in-laws, my H and the OW. It's been about 3 months and it is a relief not to have to worry about what I may see or how careful I have to be posting now.

Sorry you are feeling so low today. I started off today feeling pretty good and have kind of gone downhill some. I hope you can get out and do something for yourself today. I am looking forward to hearing about your match on Friday! Take care of yourself


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16