NYGal: What now?

[Painter]

So I guess my thought is this: If this is working for you, great.

I wonder, though, are you doing this as part of a systematic plan? Are you experimenting to see what works and what doesn't? Are you keeping a journal with goals and methods and results (like a science project)? Because if you do, I support that.

Or are you following your urges, breaking the NC when you feel like it, pursuing when you can't resist? That's a very different approach, because that's not really a method with stated goals.

Either way, at this point, I'd do nothing. Except be visible around town, look fabulous, and stay busy with GAL'ing. You've done a lot of pursuing and I'd step back if I were you.