My first post - please be nice.

[CWOL]

I don't want to get involved in the snooping vs. not snooping because that is your call. I snooped on my H and didn't find much.

I know DB discourages snooping, but I think you need to know for yourself the real reason that your wife is leaving you. I know for me it helped me understand what happened and act accordingly. Without the true reason would have had me spinning my wheels continuously.