Getting out of in house S (8)

[vise82]

Hey,

Home with the kids for a couple of days. As the S get more real I am feeling some nervousness. I lost a lot of sleep last night as I was thinking about the S agreement.

In the morning I talked to W about her putting in the agreement that she gets them every Christmas, and I am allowed to tag along if I want. I said she needed to change that so we rotate every year. She didn't argue about it. I thought I was going to have to give the your not inviting me to your brothers wedding but I can come for Christmas? Didn't have to. she agreed.

The other thing was the parenting schedule, I could tell it was off if 50/50 in W favour. she was mad I was questioning her and spewed about how she is saving me all this money rolling the alimony into the child support. And how she has not been a btich with everything but can be. I just said can see something doesn't ad up and I want to look at it closer, on my own. She was trying to show me that it adds up and its fine and not a big deal. I said it is a big deal because if we cant get along this is the document that we follow until we go to lawyers to change it. She was selling it a loosely guide of a document and we can just do what we want.

I do the math and she has them 10 hours more then me in two weeks. It worked out to an extra Saturday.

So she is going to get her L to change that. Now I found out my L is away for two weeks.

I can see the stress in her as the gravity of the selling the house and clearing up legal stuff is big. It is also affecting other people lives as well(people who want to buy our place)

I am feeling it too, this is hundreds of thousands of dollars and the risk of being sued if something on our en fails is there.
Her parents are at risk also to mix it up more.

All of this and W was trying to save us money doing a short cut to S.

Its all in balance right now. everything will work out if it stays like that.