Thanks Tim! Yes it's a tough one. I did tell him that she is his mother, and so on, but he is so against what she is doing. When she tried to blame this on me i told her he is an adult, and can think for himself. Son did tell me that she maybe happy now, but when she wakes up someday, and realizes that she lost all the people that loved her then she will see how happy she is. It made me sad to hear him say that, and i said to him again that she is your mom, and forever will be your mom, but he wouldn't hear it.