Nope. Read up on the countless stories about people pursuing the WAS and trying to stay connected.
I've never seen one single story where this was successful.
Go back and read the Last Resort Technique in DR. Michelle says it never works when we try to keep that connection with a WW partner.
He has to miss you, Sparks. AND if he does want to come back, and you let him come back without any resistance, he will leave again. Just look at me.
I should have made W work for me. I didn't, and she realized she still had my balls in her purse. I was too eager to relieve my pain.
Plus, do you REALLY want him back if you have to convince him to come home??? Or do you want him to genuinely want to come home and to make that decision without any influence from you?
I sure as hell don't W to come back because she pity's me. I want her to come back because she realizes she has a deep, profound love for me and that she was hasty in making her decision to leave me.
If she does come back and it's not because she genuinely loves me, it will only be a matter of time before I back on this website, crying in my beer.
