daybyday, I have not moved any of her left behind things. Her dresser and its contents remain right where they were. I just cant bring myself to move it yet.
We both have S13. It is hard with them. They are going through a hard time with body changes, new hormones, school drama, and now this. Try to let him know you are there for him to talk to. My counselor told me I can pull out the talks a bit but not to be too forceful with it. IC also said make sure you are not always talking about it because you need to be an oasis for him. I have been following up on that advice the best I can. I do not ask him about WW and do not bring up how he feels unless I see he wants to say something or unless he is in a worse than normal bad mood. I would have like to set up counseling for him but he refuses. While I know it is for the best, I need him to know he can trust me completely, so I have not done it since he refuses.
Best of luck to you daybyday, and enjoy those small interactions just as they are without expectation of more.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
