V- I will look up the smiling crocodile tactic. Google just says being fake? Two faced?
I really thought I was doing good..but he knows exactly what to say to make it really hurt.
How can I DB if he knows deep down how I feel no matter how hard I try to move on and act as if until its real?
That's what hurt. He knows how I feel deep down and just doesn't care. At all.
Last night I started reading up on your threads after posting on mine. I am almost caught up, but I just wanted to check in and say you are amazing! I wish I was as quick to pick up on the tactics as you are. The conversation you had with him about the D and OW you handled beautifully. I know the strategies here seem simple and easy when you are reading about it, but when you are in the thick of it there is a lot going on and being human is one of those things we can't overcome.
Listen to V...she knows her Sh!$. And definitely rely on your lawyer. I can't imagine that you have no claim on the house--it is an asset. Every state is the same, but definitely keep your L in your back pocket. You are doing amazing. Far better than I did.
<<hugs>>
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17
