Job, thanks so much for your post - and for your supportive presence on the forum - I so appreciate it
Just a little update. I had a busy weekend, but was a little up and down. Saturday I went for a night out with 3 girlfriends. There was much eying up of guys and TBH I didn't enjoy the evening all that much. It put me out of sorts for the next day or so. I guess I'm still a little raw about that kind of thing and it's not how I want to be spending my time just now. Still nice to be friends with them, but I'll probably stick to accepting the gentler invites for now.
So, I've been feeling a little raw as 'the end' is approaching now. I'm okay, but I've been feeling some stronger emotions and punching a few cushions lately.
I found an important document of H's in amongst mine and posted it to him. Got a brief thank you email back. It is funny - a while back I stopped using our 'pet' names for each other in emails etc. It just didn't feel right. H briefly stopped using them too - but reverted back and always uses 'his' name for me and 'my' name for him. I find it a little odd really and TBH it grates a little given all circumstances.
I received the draft financial agreement and approved it. We're awaiting a hard copy and I expect to call in to sign that any day. Once it is signed, H plans to finalise the D.
Otherwise, life carries on and I've been enjoying the early spring sunshine, new friendships and other activities.
Take care all & thanks for reading xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
