Still moving in a new direction

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Hi Mleigh, it sounds like you are doing well, and hats off to you with the MIL dealings. I agree with the expectations of yourself. This is how I try to operate nowadays. Before I was often motivated by, what do I think they expect of me? Which I realise now is giving my power away - it's a work in progress, but I always try and take it back now. I had an example recently where my Dad was lecturing giving me some unwanted advice. I came away really annoyed about that. Next time I saw him I kindly told him I'm able to take care of that myself and I know he always means well and I'll ask him if I do want some advice.

Your trip plans sound lovely. Beach front house in Malibu?? I'm in!! Good luck with the counselling. I hope your H attends and participates constructively.

Take care xx