Short but sweet and #100% real. I gave her what she wanted as to avoid dragging my feet and not try to control this sitch. i swear the closer that a WW gets to what she thinks she wants the angrier she gets. Big week for me this week...supposedly getting D papers. I accept it, I need to work on me and she needs to as you said, "get to the place she needs to go" I saw on here somewhere that if your going thru he11, you have to keep walking to get out.
One of the things I've been learning is that any action I take regarding our MR with WW is always interpreted by WW as my trying to control her. So I changed my tactics and I avoid any direct action myself. I want her to discover her own "freedom" and what cost it will come at. It is very difficult and counter-intuitive, but I've tried the other way too, trying to "nice" my way to stop the D. It didn't work.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
