Hi Uphill! I'm sorry to hear that you had a rough day.

I'm reading your story and thinking that really there is a lot there to be hopeful about - those deep talks, fun texts. Going back to neutral is better than her going negative. Step back and just hang in there.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16