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[CWOL]

I think I'm moving back to sad again. I can't let that happen, because that's what the W would want. Don't you do what your W wants CWOL.

Yes, the emotional yoyo is very annoying. When I become sad, I try to focus on the anger, and think about what I found between WW and OM, their email exchanges and how they talked about me. It helps to combat the sadness and make me motivated to be proactive and do things...

Tonight WW is behaving like nothing is wrong in the family, sitting together and joking with us at dinner, watching the TV together and laughing with S11 and me, engaging in conversations. It was like old times again, she was smiling and happy. Everyone again sleeps in their own bed though.

Her L made some weird excuse that she just had surgery and won't get back to my L until week of 3/25. WTF? So WW is staying in the house until then??? Part of me wants her out of here so she won't have that family scene I just described above. The other part of me is terrified at having an empty house. (Although it won't be the first time, I lived in this same house as a bachelor for three years before marrying WW).

I talked with my sister and she is going to help me with various parts of the D and logistics around S11 if I need it. It is good to have family helping, but they don't really understand what you are going through. Everyone is so quick to offer advice but they don't really understand the dynamics of wayward/faithful spouses. But it was good to let her understand how unfair the laws are to the faithful spouse.