My WW was extremely angry. She actually told me, all she really wants to do is hurt me. This was before I learned about DB. This was preceded by 1/2 of her just saying things she knew would hurt me. When she said she just wanted to her hurt me I told her she could say anything she wants to me if it would make her happy or if it pleased her she could just start hitting me, I didn't care as long as she was here with me, I would be happy. Well of course that just made her angrier.

Since we have separated she still has some very emotional bouts of rage. She has threatened to withhold my kid and have me arrested for not giving her rings back.

Set your boundaries and stick to them. BTW when you do this if your WW is anything like mine she will get even angrier for a time but it does seem to lessen a bit after it flares. Read and reread the boundaries homework.

Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16