The irresponsibility isn't new. But the whole being mean just to hurt me. Saying things to just try and piss me off (on d-day), that's not something I've ever seen in him before. But OW is exactly the kind of woman he went for before he dated me. His best friend told me that he thought H was lucky to have me, that I was the best thing that ever happened to him, and that H has always chosen batsh*t crazy women in the past and I'm the first girlfriend he's had that he didn't think was insane.
Mutual friends can't believe what he's doing. Everyone thinks he's being a jackass etc.
But it all doesn't matter. Nothing I do matters. Nothing his friends say matters.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward