My W is a HUGE Facebook junkie. She basically lives on Facebook. So when she changed her status to single, I was GUTTED.
Even during the first time we split, she left her status alone. She was still in a R with me on Facebook the whole time we were apart. She changed her status to single this time on Valentine's day. That was a major kick in the teeth for me.
And that was the day I decided I would no longer snoop, check in on, ask about, or inquire about her. I decided I was going to try and pretend that she passed away. And flipping it in my mind like that does seem to help me. Maybe it will help you?
IF he's gone, there's nothing you can do about it. But your sitch is still so early, Sparks. You have so much time to play with. Try not to think too far into the future because you never know what can happen.
I know it hurts like hell. Feel your feelings until you no longer care.
