Hmmmm…I am probably not the best person to answer this because I haven't touched any of H's stuff or moved into his "space" that he left behind. Mostly, it is out of stubbornness. I don't want him to think that I cared enough to move his stuff, or move into his space. I want him to think I just kept on going with my life and continued to use what I needed and previously had. I even sleep on the same side of the bed and don't ever go over to his side. It would be interesting to get more views on this.

But, I would say, if you need the space, use it. If you don't, then you can take some time and decide. Not sure your WW will care while she is in her fog and will she be around to really see it?


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16