Originally Posted By: Sparkls

But I do know H incredibly well and he's stubborn and he catastrophizes everything and everything is black and white.
And his black and white right now is that it won't work between us.


This is my H, too!! Maybe they've both been taken over by the same body snatchers?

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16