I'm trying to be but no, not really. I saw him get online, didn't think anything of it. Then went a looked at my friends list to try and find someone's name and saw he had defriended me.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward