Cry away...I wish I could do that sometimes! Looking after yourself isn't easy but, in the long run, it's easier than the alternative It's hard when you care for someone and have to let them go...I was there. I was with SDA lady for well over a year and realized that where it was going was somewhere I didn't want to go and it wasn't a healthy place for either of us to be. So I ended it and felt horrible 'cuz I knew I hurt her badly...she didn't understand. Recently I saw her on POF and I had a brief thought "what if..." but then I asked myself "do you really think she's changed in any way?" and in all honesty, I had to say no. So, I changed my search settings and problem solved lol. I hope she finds the love she longs for but it's not gonna be me (not saying she'd even want me again!). My marriage ended 8 years ago too...I just realized that recently. It's OK to be alone, much of the time I quite like it. Sometimes I think it would be just too much energy to start over again. But, that's today...tomorrow who knows Hang in there G, you've put your strong foot forward and that's never a mistake.
It's hard when you care for someone and have to let them go...I was there. I was with SDA lady for well over a year and realized that where it was going was somewhere I didn't want to go and it wasn't a healthy place for either of us to be. So I ended it and felt horrible 'cuz I knew I hurt her badly...she didn't understand. Recently I saw her on POF and I had a brief thought "what if..." but then I asked myself "do you really think she's changed in any way?" and in all honesty, I had to say no. So, I changed my search settings and problem solved lol. I hope she finds the love she longs for but it's not gonna be me (not saying she'd even want me again!). My marriage ended 8 years ago too...I just realized that recently. It's OK to be alone, much of the time I quite like it. Sometimes I think it would be just too much energy to start over again. But, that's today...tomorrow who knows 