Hey All just checking in. I had my second coaching session with a DB coach last night it was very informative. The detaching is still going. Things between us seem really good no fighting, no begging from me. The W told her brother she's fears that things will go back to the way it used to be where I didn't pay attention to her and she didn't feel loved. I haven't responded to her in any way. I know she met with a divorce attorney yesterday, but has yet to mention anything to me. I know she told her mother she would hope we could do meditation instead of having a drag out divorce. We postponed the family trip but kept out vacation days at work. So now my question for you all.
We have been doing this modified separation where on her nights off (Thursday,Friday) I stay at her parents house. And the nights she works I don't come home until 10:30pm (she works 11p-7a). Now since we are both off for the next week and a half should I just stay at the house or continue the separation plan?
Here's my thought if I stay at her parents for a week maybe she will see what it's like without me but who knows anymore
