So far, no no one has filed or done anything. I have done research, talking to L's, everything I can to be prepared. I even have D papers on me in my house just so I have them.
Yeah, I really would like to save, move out as soon as I can. He says he is filling as soon as I get a job. I am currently waiting for my cna license to give me my test date. I have a under the table secret job no one knows about too but that is only a little bit of money right now.
Yeah I know if I made the agreement he could kick me out at anytime, which is why I told him I will not agree to anything unless it is written into the divorce. I will make sure ANY AND EVERY agreement is legal!
I am working on new set of boundaries for myself and hopefully a moving out plan. I know staying in the house is best financially for both of us but I just feel like I would never move on from him and be stuck kissing his booty as long as I lived here.
He called 5x, left 2 VM, and 1 text. I do not think it was important, the only thing he said was our daughter was cute in her dress, he asked for a photo the other day and just now replied about it and then both voicemail's said hey and hey when you get the chance call me back.
I can't be NC everyday because of the babies but I'm trying to be as NC as I can be. If he calls later I might answer since it takes like 5 minutes of effort to call from work but if not, then I'll answer tomorrow 1x.
To call from work he has to call 2 different people, have them call "his wife", and then be connected to my cell or house phone.
Still debating if he does if I should. I don't know.
I went and splurged at Victoria's Secret. 3 matching sets! My mom calls it my dating collection. All this new lingerie and matching sets no one will get to see but I have LOL.
