Let me clarify.
If she starts asking you relationship questions and you feel if you don't answer you will push her away and she will just stay away. Then you need to be able let her know it is something you would consider meaning a reconciliation but there are a lot of things that need to be figured out.

You can't let her know that just because she said she wants back that you are just waiting. She needs to know this is a two way street

Think about your feeling just taking her back right away then you have to deal with the thoughts of what she did to you come rushing in. That will be very difficult.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15