Ny While I think you should just meet next time I am reluctant to say that to you. I'm not sure you can handle it. That being said I am no better! I have a good amount of interaction with my W lately but we have kids. To the point where my mother said why don't you guys just move back in together! Nothing seems to be making her come around and want anything but it does feel good. Then you crash. I don't pursue at speak anything like that but the thoughts rush. We had to have a talk about kid schedule changing today and I didn't want to because I knew I just wanted to say lets just fix this and not worry about it!
Back to you
I am afraid you will break. I know you believe the contact keeps her close. I understand that. I am actually considering if I need to pull away again or if I am building something.
You need to be able to validate and listen. If she try's to pull things out of you then you need to have to be somewhere. Don't let her into your mind in this one. Let her talk. Then if you need to make sure she isn't thinking you are done and she will walk forever tell her it is something that you both would need to really work on and possibly discuss further. Another time
Hope I make sense.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
