He's been saying that he is numb to all of it. And I think is is also numb to my dark/DBing at this point. Which means he has no feelings about anything at this point a.k.a. indifference. Which I'm assuming he feels he cant come back from. So me saying thank you vs not saying anything until he initiates contact will mean a can of beans in the grand scheme of the sitch. Any advice on course of action would be much appreciated.


"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."